What happens now?

I was irritated for a few days and went into a thinking mode. And poured my anger into writing, trust me nothing makes it better than pouring it out to someone who can stand you that time. TeeHee. Anyway, Once that phase gets over you realize how silly it looked. I literally got rid of my mobile for the past few days and I've been diverting my energies to something else and in the course finished around 5 books :p

Well, I consider myself very productive, if I put effort on the right things, they do happen. Anyway, 3 kittens got a home in my office as I concentrated only on that last few days.

Next, I'm following a new technique, something like Ahmisa one. This way of living ensures that I will be attached to no one but I will help everyone instantly. I will be what a good human will be and I will do it without any expectation. I've been practicing it for few days, let me see how far I can pull it off.

Outside family, its pretty hard to find relationships like bro/sis, husband/wife, best friend. Its all a matter of good luck and destiny that you might end up getting all these , outside of your family. I'm not even sure if I have any of these, but I'm pretty sure I have mom,dad and sis to love me always whatever I am.

No one is bad. Everyone is good. I feel sorry for the people who were forced to hurt someone else to save themselves. We must pity them, not hate them. The faulty ones are those who think they are right and those who are adamant. Even what i write here now, its just a thought. I would always accept defeat if this way of living doesn't work. Man fails the minute he thinks he is right. Its important to be open minded and adaptable and allow others opinions to get into our heads.

I often see misusing quotes. Of course its true that a true friend will accept you as you are with all your negatives. But that doesn't mean you can say "This is what I am, I wont change". Here is the difference between being who you are and disrespectful adamant behavior. Its as confusing as the difference between "childish" and "childlike". The former is a negative characteristic while the later is a positive one.

I've given up certain characteristics. The few being attachment to best friends, poessiveness with people, expectation of extraordinary good characters from people, gratefulness.. et all. In general my policy is be nice to everyone, help everyone if they ever need you, but never be attached to anyone. Never "want" someone in your life. The only people I want to be attached to is my family. I simply love them a lot and I cherish them every single day.

Let me see if this way of living improves my life. But it already has. Something tells me, this is going to be permanent and it will work.

ITSSSSSSSSSsss Halloween

And what is better than watching a scary movie on a day like this :)

Right now I'm busy searching my horror movies collection now :)

Series Marathon

I've finished the entire series of

1. The Sleepover Club - Season 1

2. F.R.I.E.N.D.S - Seasons 1 to 10


3. The Lizze Mcguire Series - Seasons 1 and 2

And All were Awesome!!! :)

I'm now watching Season 2 of 'The Sleepover Club' and its not so good as the first one because a new set of girls are acting in the season 2! Anyways after this I plan to watch 'The Big Bang Theory' and '90210' which is another good series! :)

Chick Lit n Other Books

I finally got my copy of 'The Secret Dreamworld of a Shopaholic' on my hands from the local library! Although I have already seen the movie and could totally connect to the character, I want to see whats in the book! There are many books in this series I heard and I'm going to read them one after the other.



I also could not help getting four micky mouse comics and two archie double digest and also renewed Jane Eyre! I'm yet to finish the book!

Once I finish with all these books, its going to be twilight series! Every girl pal of mine has recommended the book to me! ;)

If you could have whatever you wanted?

I came across this question and it put me to thinking!!

Will I be the happiest person on earth then?

If you think my answer was YES, that is a big mistake. My conscience actually answered NO!!

Simply because if you have everything you want, you will never realize the value of ANY of them. Something ought to be lost to realize the value of some other things. Even a simple praise can be taken as an example. Imagine yourself as a celebrity who is always appreciated. At one point you would get sick of them. You would no longer feel its great to be appreciated. But then, if someone didn't appreciate your honest efforts, and another friend of yours actually felt great about you, that is when you truly understand the value of that appreciation.

In this unfair world, we must be thankful to the unfair people, for without them we would never open our eyes to the love that a bunch of fair and wonderful people around you show you. Thank your bad luck and your misfortunes, for they help you understand the good in you and around you.

Getting everything I want definitely won't make me the happiest person, I conclude today. What I have right now is what is giving me happiness, however little that is and its my duty to appreciate that. This imperfection would in turn lead me to appreciate the people who have been nice to me all along and the things I have achieved in life so far. I know this is really confusing! :D



Pitiful fact is , these thoughts don't stay in my mind constantly. Once in a blue moon I get them, but these are from my heart.

Next time when someone appreciates you, acknowledge them with a thank you and smile at them. Its easy to help others, but for them to realize that you are helping them and for them to appreciate you is something like a miracle.

Pledge to NEVER LOSE Your SMILE that makes your face so pretty to look at!



You Smile. I smile. Everyone Smile Pleaseeee :)

Analyze This. Analyze That.

Someone appreciated me for being who I am and for helping them. Someone actually thought my attitude was awesome and followed me. I never knew this. When such surprises come in life, it makes one feel happy, a great boost to self.

Life is really beautiful ! Everyone is in the same boat and you are never alone!

Fun Way of Dealing with Procrastination

Finally I found a new way to deal with Procrastination, a problem most of the people of my age have to deal with and get out of it.

Here I am writing down my list of works to be done, but not in the usual boring way of doing them.
MY method is now adding the FUN and MYSTERY Factor to my To Do LIST. Oh My, I already am a Listmaniac and this is going to add Fuel to the fire! Yay! :D



I have with me 16 bits of paper now. Right now I'm writing all my works in them one by one.

1. Workout
2. Arrange Cupboard
3. Clean Room
4. Manicure and Pedicure
5. Blog post

and So on.

So I would the papers in a box and take one randomly. Once the first task is completed, I would take the next paper from the box and do it blindly. Finally by the end of the day, I would have completed all my work and it wont be boring. Not knowing what is the next work makes the whole thing like an interesting game.

Its all in the mind. I'm also figuring out lot of fun ways to deal with every single problem that I may face and am pretty sure there is a fun way to dealing with anything in life!!